How much love are you giving? I work with people everyday who often feel that no one really loves them. Or they wonder if they will ever experience a real love relationship with another.
But the question we all should be asking is...”how much love am I giving?” Because only what we are not giving can be lacking in any situation. The purpose of relationships is to expand us and where our love is conditional, we need expansion. Wanting to be loved when you are not ready or willing to give love is really a very selfish and self serving desire.
Can you love even in the absence of love? Can you love even when it seems that no one is reciprocating?
True love has no expectations...all true love wants to do is love...to give it. So I ask you once again...how much love are you giving? Take a look around you...if your life is not overflowing with love...maybe you are the missing link.
the only way i was able to love was to one, realize that I was bankrupt on love and two, that I couldn't give what I didn't have and Three, if I couldn't give it I couldn't get it because of the spiritual law of sowing and reaping. I was in a fine mess. i cried out to God and laid out to Him my situation and He took me and showed me where I had shut Him out and given up on love because it hurt too much to love. After I had shut Him out there was only more pain, self destruction and revictimization that I often put myself into the path of. When I repented of shutting out God and I asked Him to help me to RECEIVE HIS love for my heart. He did....and I have never turned back. And I'm living the dream the more love I give the more love I get. <3
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